To many guys, strippers seem like an exotic treasure that is almost impossible to have for yourself. The best you can do is pay $20 a song for a tease of what it must be like to get with her. This is entirely not the case.
Dating or sleeping with a stripper is completely achievable. Sometimes it doesn’t even require a whole lot of effort. I could probably write a book about the ins and outs of strippers and how to have sex with them, but let’s just hit the main points.
Don’t Be A Customer
The first and most important thing to do when trying to get with a stripper is not to let her slip into the lull of “customer mode” when she is with you. These girls see several men every night. To them, most of the guys are the same and are nothing special. You have to be the exception to this. Make her laugh, bullshit around with her, but make it clear up front that you’re not some chump customer. Customers don’t get laid. They just overpay for an elaborate tease.
When a stripper sits down with me, my approach is to do something to make her laugh, but shortly after accomplishing that (thus anchoring her interest in being around me), I say something along the lines of, “hey just so you know, I don’t do lap dances. You’re welcome to hang out and I’d love to buy you a drink, but if tonight’s the night to make money for the bills, I don’t want to waste your time.” You’d be amazed at how receptive and appreciative they are for this honesty. The thing strippers hate the most is spending 45 minutes talking to some guy only to have him say “no thanks” when she asks if he wants a dance.
Get Lucky
There is a huge fallacy that strippers are cunning opportunists or career-oriented earners. That is total bs. Strippers are usually lazy party girls that live night to night on whatever money they can make at the club. It can be frustrating trying to organize a way to hang out with a stripper outside of the club. Most of them are so lazy, clueless, and unreliable, that it makes it hard to try to hook up with them. They also almost always have at least one kid too which really cramps things.
There are a couple ways to try to sleep with a stripper. If she has spent a lot of time with you and seems to be enjoying herself, you could try to meet up with her at a bar that night. Use some line like, “hey wanna do one last drink at [some bar] before you head home?” If you can get her to meet you outside of the club, your chances go up a lot. If she’s really into you, you could try to swap out a bar with your place in that invitation.
Lastly, another way to sleep with them is to develop a nice rapport with them and then just take them with you to Vegas on your next poker trip. Not cheap by any means, but getting laid rarely is.